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How to Conquer Toy Clutter

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Here's the truth about toy clutter. It's pretty much impossible to make your house look like children don't live there when, in fact, children  do .  Maybe it's because you've put away your breakables, you have every outlet plugged with covers, there's a high chair in the dining room, or the family room boasts a bulletin board covered with amazingly colored scribbles – I mean (ahem) drawings by your gifted child. Of course you don't want to hide the fact that you have children, but that doesn't mean you want your house to look like some crazy clown went berserk in a toy store.  You are fine with the fact that your house looks like kids live there, but you don't want it to look like the home of hoarders-in-training . 12 steps to tame the toys Right now is a great time to reduce toy clutter, with the holidays (and new toys) just around the corner.  Here's a process you can repeat two or three times a year. 1.  Make time. This doesn't work well

15 Proven Tips to Make Life in a Small Home Pleasant

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Anne, a reader from England, sent me an email saying that she was surprised by my idea of photographing outfits to post on a closet inspiration board .  "This won't apply to many people in England," she wrote.  "Our houses have become very much smaller over the years... because housing is so expensive over here." I was interested to hear how Anne and her husband live comfortably in their small home (53 square meters/570 square feet).  Here in the U.S. the average size of houses keeps growing , and bigger houses do cost much more.  People seem willing to accept a huge mortgage, literally signing their lives away ("mortgage" originally meant "death pledge") in order to purchase and furnish as large a home as possible. Why do we carry such a heavy debt?   And what are we hoping to get in exchange for our money and life energy? Maybe we want extra large homes so we don't have to share space.  As house sizes have increased in North America, fa

Less is Not a Bore

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Maybe you've heard architect Mies van der Rohe's famous dictum, "Less is more."  His ideal of focusing on essentials and removing superfluous detail has dominated modern design. But Robert Venturi , often called the founder of postmodern design, is famous for his reaction, proclaiming "Less is a bore."  He went on to design buildings that are irregular, eclectic, and likened to pop art. This apparently caused horror and consternation among architects, which you might think is pretty silly (I do). How Venturi got it wrong I don't care for the sleek glass-and-steel look myself, but I believe a minimalist mindset can accommodate many tastes.  If that's your style, enjoy it. But we shouldn't think that less is boring.  Less is peaceful.  It can reflect contentment with what you have.  And it can certainly be pretty.  Far from being soulless and cold, less can expose what you treasure and what you're really all about.  Instead of letting your fav

The Kitchen Makeover (Part 2) - 7 More Steps to the Space of Your Dreams

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You don't need a bigger house with a bigger kitchen.  Instead, you need to own less so that your kitchen can serve you better!  You need to own less, not to add frustration by removing a tool you really need, but so you can bypass inconvenience and  easily access  the items you use the most. So you've made time for a thorough kitchen declutter, starting with dishes, drinkware, flatware, serveware, and all of your tools and gadgets.  Now you're ready to deal with cookware, bakeware, small appliances, countertops, and your food storage areas. Let's continue!  (If you missed Part 1, find it  here .) 7 more steps to a welcoming, spacious, functional kitchen 8.  Remove duplicate cookware. Do you really need all the pots and pans filling your cupboards?  Do you enjoy digging through all those pieces to access what you like, or would you do better with a carefully selected group?   Since cookware is often sold in sets (or we combine households with a partner), we end up with m

The Kitchen Makeover (Part 1) - 7 First Steps to a Better Space

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Your kitchen is the heart of your home, the place where everyone lingers.  It's where you cook and eat, your kids do homework, and friends sit and drink coffee or wine and talk about their lives. But it might also hold too many dishes, glasses, gadgets, and small appliances, not to mention piles of mail, bags and backpacks, and 45 magnets on the refrigerator door. The kitchen is a busy place where clutter loves to accumulate.  We all need to streamline this heavily used area. Benefits of a streamlined kitchen More peaceful mornings as you prepare and eat breakfast, fix lunches to go, and get ready for the day. More clarity in creating a grocery list. More speed in the transition from grocery bag to freezer, refrigerator, or pantry. More ease in meal preparation and clean up. More confidence in entertaining. More time after dinner for family conversation and togetherness. That's a lot to promise, I know, but a clutter-free kitchen can make it possible.  So before you decide you

The Closet Makeover - 5 Steps to Make It Fresh, Attractive, and Useful

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There are a few sure signs that you need to declutter your closet: You can't find what you need. It's full of clothes you no longer wear. Your clothes are so packed together they wrinkle. Even if you're not quite to this point, there are other times when anyone's closet can benefit from pruning and updating: The seasons are changing. You're getting ready to move. Your lifestyle is changing – you're going back to work or starting a new career, retiring, having a baby, etc. 5 steps to a curated closet 1.  Gather your tools. Start with a donation box, a garbage bag, and a box for items that need to be cleaned or repaired.  A full-length mirror will let you assess items as you decide what to keep and what to toss.  You'll also need a spray bottle of all-purpose cleaner, a rag or two, a broom, and the vacuum cleaner or mop. 2.  Empty and clean your closet. This will be eye-opening, because you're going to discover exactly how many clothes you own .  You may d

End Binge and Purge: 4 Ways to Break Free of a Shopping Addiction

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I used to struggle with compulsive shopping. I'd go through a period of binge shopping, whether for clothes, home décor, books, kitchen items, or something else.  Then a few months later I'd go on a decluttering jag, have a garage sale or use classified ads, and donate what I couldn't sell.  Then with the money I'd made (and while still paying on credit card debt I'd run up during my binge phase), I'd go out and buy new stuff. The thing is, you're not truly decluttering if you go out to buy more.  You may be making some room so that your house, closets, and drawers don't become overstuffed, but the shop ➔ declutter ➔ shop cycle isn't minimalism.  It's consumerism. Why the practice of "one in, one out" can be a trap "One in, one out" is common advice given to those who want to remain clutter-free.  And while it's good advice, it's not perfect.  Here's why you need to be cautious: "One in, one out" lets you

5 Easy Steps to Declutter Your Home Now

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If you're new to decluttering, in the middle of decluttering (and feeling a little overwhelmed), or just wanting a bit of a tune-up, it's always a good idea to get back to basics .  Let go of your fear, let go of your guilt, and simply focus on your lovely, peaceful future with a home that holds everything you need and nothing you don't.  You can remake your space into a haven that supports you! 5 steps to declutter the easy way 1.  Remember why. There's a reason you decided that you want to live with less.  It's different for everyone – what is it for you?   Some people want more space, time, freedom, or money.   Others are looking for less stress and frustration.   Maybe you want room to entertain, paint, do yoga, let your kids play – or simply to rest.   Knowing why gives your decluttering a purpose, and keeps you going when the job seems overwhelming.  If you aren't sure about your reasons, this and this will help. 2.  Be clear about your goal. Remember t