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Remake Your Habits (Minimalist Challenges Part 11)

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I'm confronting the reality that I have a sugar addiction.  Without thinking, I add sugar and cream to my morning coffee and jam on my toast.  After lunch, I have a piece of chocolate or a cookie.  (I relieve my guilt by choosing  small  chocolates or cookies.)  Then a large mug of sweet and milky tea.  After dinner, perhaps a cup of sweetened Greek yogurt.  (Again the justification – it has live cultures and plenty of protein.) Do I eat and drink these things because I'm truly hungry or thirsty?  And if I am, wouldn't black coffee, unsweetened tea, and water with lemon be better choices?  How about an apple or a banana?  Or plain yogurt with some berries?  (There's a large strawberry patch currently selling sun-ripened fruit just minutes from my house.) On auto-pilot My bad habits – like anyone's – are mindless.  I don't decide on them – I just do them.  Which is, of course, what makes them habits and hard to break.  I'm not sure I even enjoy the sweetness

Return to Real Life (Minimalist Challenges Part 10)

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Congratulations!  If you've been following along, you've made some amazing strides toward decluttering your home, calendar, phone, and email.  You've thought about your spending, your blessings, and your highest priorities.  You've started saving for emergencies and designed intentional rituals for the beginning and end of each day.  I applaud each step you've taken on your journey toward a simpler, more fulfilling life! Bucking the trend of passive consumption If you've been reading this blog for a while, you might remember that I'm in the middle of a Buy Nothing Year (check out the details and a previous update here ).  I've been learning that my impulses to shop are rarely inspired by actual need, since I plainly have enough already. Of course, we're alive, so we must consume.  We need shelter, food, clothing, medical care, and transportation.  We need opportunities to learn and to work.  And we need rest and recreation.  In fact, a huge part of h

How to Win at Hide and Seek (Minimalist Challenges Part 9)

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Do you play hide and seek? When I was a kid my brother, sister, and I usually spent a summer week or two at my grandparents' house.  Two of my uncles lived nearby, so we were able to visit with my eight cousins as well. One of our favorite games was hide and seek.  My grandparents' place had several outbuildings (one of which held two defunct autos we were allowed to play in), a large garden, a small orchard, and some huge old trees bordering the neighbor's cotton field. Imagine ten kids scurrying to hide while one of them – "It" – counts to 100.  There were tons of hiding places and a lot of old stuff to hide in and behind and underneath.  As "It" located each kid, they joined together in searching for the rest, so eventually ten children were looking for the last one.  It was exciting, dirty, sweaty, and so much fun. You know what's not fun? It's hugely frustrating to play hide and seek with your belongings because you have so much you can'

Improve Your Health with Minimalism (Challenges Part 8)

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Earlier this year I was the victim of identity theft, and it was a sickening experience.  I felt so angry and so  vulnerable .  But I'm also thankful for the kindness and competence of the people who helped me sort things out and begin to recover. Chronic stress can kill you. Identity theft is only one possible source of stress in our world today.  Work, relationships, parenting, and general over-busyness can also be part of the mix.  But many studies, including the American Psychological Association's 2022 Stress in America survey, indicate that a large majority of Americans feel stressed about finances. Chronic stress is really bad for our health.  It lowers our immune response and can leave us vulnerable to digestive problems, headaches, high blood pressure, heart disease, and more. A minimalist mindset can reduce stress by helping us remove the things that bog us down and steal our money, time, and attention.  We may own and do less, but we gain the space and energy to foc

Keep Looking Ahead (Challenges Part 7)

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As I was decluttering a few duplicates the other day, my husband noticed I had put some of his "teacher" mugs in the discard box.  He receives a few mugs of this sort every year at Christmas and at the end of the school year.  There are many clever variations on the "teacher" mug, but if we kept all that he was given we'd own well over 100 by now. We can get attached to anything if we hang on to it long enough. Jon likes and enjoys his students and appreciates the thoughtfulness behind the gifts and cards they give him.  He can get a little nostalgic about his 35+ years as a teacher, but each successive group of children is unique, surprising, and fun.  Interacting with them today is what keeps him interested and energized. If we keep items long enough, they sometimes become a focus for memory and sentiment, even if they weren't sentimental to begin with.  We can develop an attachment over time, even if the items don't merit one.  That's why it'

How to Be Happier with Less (Challenges Part 6)

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  "If a little is good, more must be better !"    Isn't that the mantra of our culture?  It goes with "Buy one, get one" (whether you need it or not), "Supersize it!" and "Why settle for less?" It's never enough. My parents never had much money to spare, but I have never experienced real poverty.  I imagine it's the same for most of you.  And today, we have everything we need and then some.  But our hyper-consumerist culture has convinced us that we need even more.   It's not enough to have a house – we need to continually update and upsize our housing.   It's not enough to have clothing – we need to follow trends that change every few months. It's not enough to have a phone – we need to upgrade every time a newer model appears. It's not enough to have a car – we need to trade it in every couple of years for something bigger and with more features.   This attitude explains why our closets are packed with clothing and o

A Better Use of Time (Minimalist Challenges Part 5)

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Don't you think it's interesting that we can spend an afternoon and evening binge-watching an entire season of  The Big Bang Theory , but we "don't have time" to make something just for the fun of it?  We can lose an hour scrolling on social media, but we "don't have time" to write our closest friends and loved ones more than a few texts. Maybe we need to think more carefully about how we use the precious gift of our time. Love, Grandma One of my favorite possessions is a letter my grandmother wrote to me when she was in her 80's about how she became a Christian and what her faith meant to her.  This lovely passage is in the middle of a four-page missive in which she also discusses what she took to a potluck dinner at her church and how her garden was progressing that season.  This letter captures the essence of Grandma in her own writing and her own words. Some of the great literature of the world is contained in personal letters of the past .* 

Improve Your Day-to-Day (Minimalist Challenges Part 4)

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My two young grandsons recently came for an overnight visit.  I love the fact that they're excited to come.  I love the fact that they consider my guest bedroom "their" room.  And I love their energy and imagination.  But within minutes my small apartment was covered in toys.  And I don't even have that many!  The blocks, Legos, wooden train set, vehicles, and even the books spread throughout the bedroom, down the hall, and into the living room.  Crayons and paper took over the dining table, and then Elliot (age 6) wanted to play  Catan Junior ,* a wonderful game with about  200 small pieces . *  This blog is reader-supported.  If you buy through my links, I may earn a small commission. The heaviness of clutter There's nothing wrong with a little creative chaos.  And at bedtime, it doesn't take long to put a few toys where they belong.  My home is usually clutter-free, so the toys (or my scrapbooking, or my husband's school work) are only temporary messes.