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The No-Complaints Challenge

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2020 has been a hard year for all of us , unforgettable in so many ways.  I'm looking forward to the joys of Christmas, aren't you? My husband Jon finally has students in his classroom – well, half the class at a time, wearing masks and socially distanced.  The third graders at his school had to go back to distance learning last week because two children tested positive for COVID, so Jon realizes that his 6th grade students could be required to re-quarantine at any time.  The students with asthma and other health challenges are still at home, so he and his colleagues are trying to accommodate student learning in a variety of set-ups.   The good news:  This situation is uncertain and stressful for everyone, but Jon has found that his colleagues are super hard-working, committed educators, and that most of the parents of his students are flexible and good-humored. It's been that kind of year. My 95-year-old father-in-law recently passed away after a long battle with cancer,

Be a Holiday Connoisseur: How to Savor Quality Over Quantity

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I'm a glutton. For as long as I can remember, I've felt rewarded by eating.  Perhaps I learned the pattern in childhood, when I got dessert if I cleaned my plate.  But it really doesn't matter how I acquired the habit.  The result is that given the choice, I'll take a large serving of adequate quality over a small but exceptional meal.  To some extent, I'm not truly satisfied unless I'm a step beyond comfortably full. That describes our culture, too. No one is going to argue that gluttony is a good thing.  A glutton has an excessive desire for food, drink, work, sex, TV, luxury or other things.  She doesn't just eat or shop – she binges.  A glutton is rarely satisfied for long, and is always looking for the next meal, the next drink, the next purchase, the next trip or experience.  A glutton is easily bored.  A glutton rarely says, "That's too much." I think our culture encourages gluttony in many ways.  That might explain our response to quar

Declutter These Items Now to Gain a Bigger, More Practical Kitchen

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The holidays are coming, and we're going to be spending a lot more time in the kitchen.  But crowded counters and crammed, hard-to-access cupboards make holiday cooking more difficult, and steal some of the joy from preparing your special dishes. 11 items that consume kitchen real estate To make your kitchen roomier before you start to cook for Thanksgiving, clear away these space-stealing items.  It'll be like having a kitchen remodel – in  less than an hour ! 1.  Excess serving pieces I'm talking about fish platters, tureens, novelty chip-and-dip servers, deviled egg trays, chargers, or other specialty pieces you rarely use.  Get rid of the ones you're least attached to.  The extra space might be more valuable. 2.  Extra vases Vases can accumulate and fill an entire cabinet.  If you regularly buy flowers or cut them from your garden, keep the same number of vases as your display areas (the mantel and the dining table, for example).  Either gift the remainder with some

Kids, Christmas, and Minimalism

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Christmas is just weeks away, and I imagine your holiday planning has already begun.  My five-year-old grandson is old enough to begin to understand and participate in Christmas-related activities, such as decorating the tree, making cookies, and setting up the Nativity scene.  Of course, he's also old enough to anticipate gifts, and has already requested "a battery engine," which means that  this * is a purchase I'm planning to make. *  This blog is reader-supported.  If you purchase through my links, I may earn a small commission. You aren't Scrooge. My parents didn't have a lot of money when I was growing up, yet I have some very happy Christmas memories.  It's possible to create a wonderful holiday for your kids without turning it into a season of excess. A minimalist holiday is not at all Scrooge-like and skimpy, but it also doesn't glorify greed and materialism.  Instead, the focus is on quality over quantity, experiences rather than things, the

5 Easy Steps to Reinvent Yourself and Downsize Today (Part 2)

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If you've ever dreamed of living in a beautiful little cottage, you need to downsize. If you want to stay in your current home, but make it more spacious and easy to care for, you need to downsize. If you want to make the eventual process of clearing your home less of a burden on your loved ones, you need to downsize . Related article:  The Choice is Yours Tough love We're now entering the hardest but most necessary section of this process.  If you think the first three steps were a challenge, prepare yourself.   Remember your motto:   Life is not measured by how much you own.  Luke 12:15   Downsize: Steps 4 and 5 4.  Choose some keepsakes. Framed photos and documents or mementos you see and handle on a regular basis are items you deemed worth displaying in the past.  Curate the best from this select group, and feel confident that they effectively represent your life. Include any photo albums or scrapbooks.  You've taken time and effort to put these together – they deser

5 Easy Steps to Reinvent Yourself and Downsize Today (Part 1)

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Many of us live in homes that hold far too much, and we find it hard to declutter unless and until something forces us to do so.  But downsizing in distress, because of illness, financial difficulty, natural disaster, or death is far more difficult. That's why I appreciate the "gentle art" of Swedish death cleaning described by author  Margareta Magnusson .*  It's the process of mindfully clearing out your own possessions before others have to do it for you.  It lightens and eases your own life as well as removing a burden from your loved ones.   *  This blog is reader-supported.  When you buy through my links, I may earn a small commission. Look to the future. Here's the motto for your lightened life.  The quote is from Jesus (Luke chapter 12, verse 15): Life is not measured by how much you own. Yes, I know that's not the message we get from our culture day after day.  It runs contrary to that constant push for more, newer, "better."  This idea is d

The Magic of Owning Less

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I don't enjoy housework.  Cleaning and scrubbing are not my idea of a good time.  But I do enjoy a clean, tidy, uncluttered home.  Fortunately, I've learned that minimalism works in spite of my natural laziness. You might be lazy like me or a bit messy by nature.  But that doesn't mean you can't be a minimalist.  In fact, becoming minimalist will really help with your housework. Here's what usually happens. We create homes that encourage us to be lazy.  For example: Say we own an excessive number of dishes.  Why bother to rinse out the water glass we used an hour ago?  Just grab another one.  Dishes don't make it to the sink or the dishwasher when we know we can just grab another out of the cupboard. Say we own a large number of clothes.  Why not just drop the ones we take off on the floor, or keep piling them in the laundry room, since we have plenty of clean clothes left in the closet?  Sure, we complain about the mountain of dirty laundry, but we don't ha

How to Pare Down Your Home Library and Uncover the Books You Love

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If you love books, you have a deep emotional connection to your favorites.  They're not simply impersonal containers for knowledge – they seem to carry your feelings and memories, whether of delight, self-recognition, or "OMG, I didn't know that and from now on my life will be completely different !" I know the idea of pruning more than a handful of titles from your shelves is unwelcome.  I had to completely change my thinking in order to do it. The books I own today are my "desert island" collection, plus a few newer publications that cycle in and back out as I read them.  I buy a few e-books, and also borrow them (more on that later). I've loved reading since I was 6.  That's when my bright yellow hardcover copy of Key to the Treasure  * was one of my most precious possessions.  Even before that, when Mama read a fairy tale or The Wonderful Wizard of Oz , I was smitten by the magic contained between the covers of a book. * This blog is reader-suppo