It's ironic, I know... but I want to let you know about a book sale! My latest, the revised and expanded Kindle edition of Minimalism for the Holidays, is on sale for 51% off starting tomorrow, November 3rd at 6:00 a.m. Pacific Time, and continuing through next Monday, November 9th, at midnight.
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I have loved reading since I was 6, when my bright yellow hardcover copy of Key to the Treasure was one of my most precious possessions. Even before that, when Mama read a fairy tale or The Wonderful Wizard of Oz, I was smitten by the magic contained between the covers of a book.
Book stores are among my most favorite places to spend an afternoon, and I used to purchase something from every school and library book drive I came across. After all, who wouldn't want all the books you can carry for only $1 or $2 apiece? I would buy books just because the title or subject looked interesting, or the author was one I recognized, or it was something I had once read but didn't actually own.
At one point, my home had five bookshelves, and all were completely full. Most of the books were mine, some were my husband's, and each of my kids had substantial collections as well. I'm not sure what the total number was, but I'd guess it was over 300.
My daughter got married, and we started thinking about downsizing, even though our son lived with us for another three years. After we packed, there were boxes and boxes of books – HEAVY boxes. And guess what? Our new home didn't have room for five bookshelves. We squeezed in three. There was no way to organize my way out of the situation. There simply wasn't room to keep every book I owned.
Decluttering books was difficult at first. There were books that I'd loved in my teens, or twenties, or thirties, and even though I didn't really want to read most of them again, it was hard to think about parting with them. There were children's books that I cherished because I had read them to my kids, or because they were exceptionally beautiful illustrated hardcover editions. And there were other books that made me feel guilty. Purchased on a whim, they had looked interesting in the store or at the used book drive, but I had never actually read them. But maybe I should, and that meant I had to keep them.
Fast forward a few years. I now own 56 books, plus 17 picture books that my grandsons keep here. I also have a physical copy of each of the books I've written and published (seven so far). Everything fits on one bookshelf. And I think I'm ready to remove another half dozen volumes, which leaves room for something new and interesting!
How did I deal with my emotional attachments, change my thinking, and ultimately reduce the weight of my book collection?
5 Realizations That Can Help You Declutter Books (and other things)
1. Buying books and reading books are not two sides of the same coin.
I've always been an avid reader, but I don't read or finish every book that catches my eye or piques my interest, and I certainly don't need to buy all of them. It's fun to dip into something new and different, but I don't need to make a purchase to have that opportunity. The public library is the perfect place to grab an armload of books that you might want to spend time reading. Libraries let you explore new reading possibilities to your heart's delight, without guilt or clutter.
Even e-books can become clutter, if you purchase many that you never read or that you read once and will never refer to again. An alternative is Amazon's Kindle Unlimited (paid link), a service which lets you borrow unlimited books to read or listen to for a small monthly fee.
Instead of collecting books, consider keeping a book journal instead. That way you can look back to see what you've read without feeling the need to possess it all.
After all, the value comes from reading the books, not owning them.
If you've acquired more books (or anything else) than you can possibly use, ask yourself why you buy so much. Are you buying for the sake of buying?
2. You don't have to read every book you've bought.
Let go of guilt, and let go of books you bought but never read, or that you've abandoned part way through. There are no book police! Thousands and thousands of new books are published every year. You can't possibly read everything. It's perfectly fine to spend time reading what you want to read, rather than what you feel obligated to get through. Once you let it go, you probably won't even miss it. And if you ever do want to read it – that's what the library is for.
3. You can't recoup the money you spent by hanging on to the book.
Decluttering anything can be hard if you feel guilty about how much you spent for it. It's tempting to feel that you have to keep things because you don't want your money to be wasted. In fact, the money has already been spent. It's called the "sunk cost," and nothing will bring it back. But you can still free up space and make wiser choices in the future.
4. Sometimes we grow away from books.
Some books become treasures that you revisit over and over through the years. For me, To Kill a Mockingbird and Emma fit into that category. My husband and I both love The Lord of the Rings, Hatchet, and The Martian. But like some old friends, there are other books we cared for in the past that we have drifted away from (Agatha Christie and Harry Potter, for example). As time passes and we evolve, our preferences may change too. That includes things like books, music, art, or hobbies that we once enjoyed but no longer do. When you remove them, you create space, time, and energy to explore what adds value to your life today.
5. Your books don't define who you are.
You might think that having lots of classics on your shelves shows that you are well-read, or that beautiful travel books or cutting-edge science books show that you are sophisticated, adventurous, or super-smart. Do read these books if they interest you, but it's your lively, intelligent conversation that will display these attributes, not the books sitting on your shelf.
Of course some books will have a profound impact on you. A few are so rich that they will continue to provide knowledge, guidance, or support for a long while, or even forever (for me that includes the Bible and a handful of books by C. S. Lewis).
The books that we have read and studied in the past have shaped who we are, and how we think and act in the world today. They are part of our memories and experiences. But the benefits we gained came from the act of reading, not the act of owning.
Decluttering books won't diminish us at all.
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