Maximum Gratitude, Minimal Stuff

I've lived in my current home for 13 years.   It's an apartment, so even though it's well-maintained, I can't upgrade or redesign anything – that's up to the owners.  (Of course, they also bear the cost!)  Last year, they redid some of the landscaping.  Over the years, we've had a new washer, dryer, and dishwasher when they were needed.  They also replaced our kitchen flooring.  It's not bad, but it's also not what I would have chosen. It would be easy to look around and be bored with my space.  I go through periods of time when I get frustrated with beige carpet and creamy white walls.  I'd love to have a slightly bigger patio.  (Ours is tiny.)  I'd really like to upgrade the pedestal sink in the bathroom and change the fluorescent light fixture and countertops in the kitchen. Are you in that situation?  Do you wish for a bigger or fancier home?  Are you longing for the day when you can buy your own?  Are you sick an...

My youngest grandson, Liam, is almost 4½ (that half year is very important ).  He's been very clear lately about the fact that he is not a baby anymore, and he's not a toddler.  Babies can't walk or talk or feed themselves.  Toddlers still wear diapers and are scared of going down the big slide.  (His criteria.)  That is nothing like him!  Just because he's the youngest in his family doesn't mean he's anyone's "baby" or "little boy." He's so adamant about this that I have to hide my smile.  When he cuddles next to me on the couch to watch a "bideo" (usually one of the Toy Story movies), clutching one of the little figures from a Lego Duplo dollhouse kit * I have, he's still very sure in his mind that he's "big." * As an Amazon Associate, I may earn a small commission when you purchase through my links, at no extra charge to you. When it came time to declutter a few items from the toy stash in my second ...

Consumption matters.  We probably see this most easily with the food we eat.  For example, when I eat fewer carbs, I weigh less without losing muscle.  When I eat more carbs, well....  Our bodies respond better to good fuel. But this truth applies to more than food.  Consider everything you consume on any random day – books, music, television, websites, news, and more.  If we can worry so much about smog or second-hand smoke when we're forced to breathe them, we should care at least as much about everything else on the menu of our lives. What we consume determines who we are. Think about the difference in worldview between someone who consistently reads The Wall Street Journal and books about investing, and listens to podcasts about business, and another person who gets news from The Guardian and reads about minimalism and gratitude.  I'm not saying that one is "bad" and the other is "good."  But it's true that those two people will think and ac...

You might wonder....  Does minimalism have anything to do with Halloween? When we think of simplicity and the holidays, we tend to focus on gift-centered celebrations like Christmas and Hanukkah.  We might try to simplify a child's birthday party.  Some people are looking for simple, low-cost ways to have a beautiful wedding.  But Halloween can be overlooked, even though spending on this holiday increases every year .  If you're curious about how to make your spooky celebration a simple one, read on. How to save money, time, and hassle this Halloween 1.  Turn to nature for your décor. There's no shortage of plastic, made-in-China-and-shipped-halfway-around-the-world décor in the stores, but do you really want to store that stuff for 50 weeks every year?  It's much simpler and environmentally friendly to use what nature so bountifully supplies. Pumpkins, gourds, and decorative corn are in every grocery store, and your backyard or local park can provide ...

Decorating your home should be fun, inexpensive, and a breeze to change for the seasons.   And I think some of the best decorative items are also functional.  Minimalist or not, we all have things we need to store, so why not make that storage attractive as well as accessible? What I've learned from some expensive past mistakes is to stick with neutral colors and subtle patterns in large home purchases like sofas, rugs, and bedcovers.  But this doesn't mean everything needs to be ivory, beige, or gray!  Navy, chocolate, and earthy olive green also work as neutrals.  With a neutral base you can add colors and patterns you love with less expensive accents.  If your preferences change, you can change a few accent pieces.  That way, you'll always have a room you enjoy without constant shopping or expense. * As an Amazon Associate, I may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you if you purchase through my links. 10 super-simple home enhancements ...

Does the idea of minimalism seem cold and harsh to you?   All-white rooms, steel-and-glass furniture, stark modernism, no kids, no pets, no friends.... Maybe you like the idea of less clutter and more space, a schedule that's less crazy and more rewarding, and finances that don't keep you up at night.  But you think "minimalist" means all or nothing – an exclusive club that you don't belong in. If that's you, I get it – because that's not what I mean when I talk about minimalism. To me, minimalism isn't about living with as little as possible.  It's not about some magic number of possessions.  It's about balance – just enough, but not too much – and intentionality – living with purpose so that your home, calendar, and finances reflect your values. The result is that the things you care about are protected and emphasized, and the things that are less important (or keep you from pursuing what you care about) have been removed to increase your p...