Maximum Gratitude, Minimal Stuff

It's a busy time of year.  You want a clean house, but you don't have time for a full deep-clean right now.  You want your house to look tidy and spacious, but you don't have time for a full declutter now, either. Never fear, you can get a cleaner, more pleasant home in minutes, even if you can't find time to clean the baseboards or reorganize your pantry today. Simply focus on the high-traffic, high-impact areas that make the most difference.  Clearing areas that are in constant view will give you the biggest reward.  Not only will you transform your home from chaotic to calm in a matter of minutes, but you'll also get a rush of endorphins as you finish the task. Ready to start? 6 areas to tackle for quickest results 1.  Floors Floors are the biggest surface in your home, so their impact is huge.  Do a quick sweep through the main living areas (don't forget the entry!) to pick up toys, shoes, clothing, sports equipment, etc. Don't just transfer the pile so...

This is the "normal" world we live in:  Wall-to-wall traffic, appointments, work duties, too many possessions.   We fill everything to the brim, because we believe that happiness is found in having it all. And then we burn out, or simply tire, and long for more peace and space, or even just a short break.  We try to pare things back so we can have a little respite. But stuff has a way of creeping back.  Like weeds, like the Greek Hydra, you remove one thing and two more raise their heads.  It's a losing battle unless you can get to the root. How to widen the margins How can we widen the margins of our days, leaving ourselves more time and energy for the things we love?  Simply pick one or two of these ideas and try them today. *  This is just a reminder that your purchases may provide a commission that helps support this blog.  Thank you. 1.  Leave one day on the weekly calendar that's mostly white space. 2.  Get up just 15 minutes earli...

We live in the 21st century.  I know that.  We can't completely ignore technology, and most of us can't (or don't want to) move to a commune in the woods.  Anyway, a lot of our modern machines are helpful.  So we need a hybrid approach.  We need to participate, but we also need to contemplate.  We need to acknowledge our interdependence, but we also need to think independently. We need to train ourselves to regain the attention we've lost to computers, smart phones, and 24/7 media of all kinds. We need distance and time to be functional enough to do or think anything meaningful at all. Jenny Odell Disconnect to connect How many of you reach for your phone first thing in the morning?  Studies show that a whopping 84% of us do .  Just 20 years ago, that would have been unthinkable. Our eight-hour workday was originally created with this idea in mind:  "Eight hours for work, eight hours for rest, eight hours for what you will."  Yet economi...

What is a weed?  Something that grows where we don't want it.  In a garden of roses, for example, a sunflower is a weed. My childhood lawn at was dotted with dandelions, much to my mother's chagrin.  (I don't think Daddy cared for them either.)  But I loved them.  There's something amiable about their sunshine-colored, many-rayed faces.  And who hasn't wished on the tufted head of a mature dandelion, believing the wish would be granted if all the seeds could be sent sailing with one puff of breath? And let's not forget their hidden virtues: The dandelion is self-propagating, not relying on pollinators to spread.  Before the invention of lawns, gardeners loved how easy it was to cultivate this useful plant. Every part of the plant is edible.  The leaves are even more nutritious than spinach and kale, rich in iron and vitamins A, C, and K.  The flowers are slightly sweet, and can be distilled into wine or jelly, and make delicious fritters ....

What would happen if we could slow down and focus?  What i f we could invest ourselves 100%? In the (fantastic) movie Green Book ,* Viggo Mortensen's character Tony "Lip" Vallelonga shares this advice: My father used to say, "Whatever you do, do it a hundred percent.  When you work, work.  When you laugh, laugh.  When you eat, eat like it's your last meal." But for most of us, that would be a different way to operate.  We're so used to multi-tasking and splitting our attention numerous ways.  Even when we think we're concentrating, we may still have music or the TV in the background, we may be distracted by phone calls and email notifications, or we may be giving ourselves a "break" every ten or fifteen minutes to check social media or eat a snack.  We're always rushing ahead to the next thing, and we rarely give ourselves completely to any task. What might happen if we did? * This blog is reader-supported.  If you buy through my links,...

My husband Jon and I are both teachers.  In fact, he just retired this June after teaching 6th grade for 42 years.  We've lived by the school calendar since we started kindergarten more than 60 years ago.  So this year it's quite different.  In our house, no one's going back to school. That doesn't mean we're immune to the changes taking place around us.  It's still blazingly hot and bone dry here in the Sacramento Valley, but harvests are happening – peaches first, and then plums.  Home gardens are bursting with tomatoes, zucchini, and melons. So, yes, changes in nature make us long for changes everywhere else.  And getting reoriented to the school routine has us wanting to get organized and cleaned up in our homes and offices, too. And that might lead us to the store. New clothes.  New shoes.  New décor.  New organizing solutions.  New tech.  New tools.  And all of those end-of-summer sales!  The doors are open, and...