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The Danish concept of hygge (pronounced "hue-gah") is often thought to be about cuddling and coziness, cocooning and comfort. Much of the marketing of hygge-related objects is about blankets, slippers, candles, and cushions.
That's fine for a country that experiences plenty of overcast and rainy days all year round, and snow, sleet, and freezing temperatures during very long, dark winters.
But I don't live in Denmark. It's June, and I live in a climate where summer weather lasts from May through October. And I don't mean pleasantly warm weather that encourages lush green growth. I'm talking about north-central California summer weather, with no rain and high temperatures. When it's 96° we say, "Well, at least it's better than yesterday when it was 106°!" And did I mention NO RAIN? Without dams and reservoirs it would be a desert.
In my opinion, there's nothing comfortable about that. The glaring sun and the brown countryside are not beautiful.
Can hygge be translated, I wonder? If it makes a long, dark, frozen winter bearable, can it also transform a seemingly endless, fire-prone summer? Is there such a thing as summertime hygge?
I found a little help from The Ministry of Foreign Affairs of Denmark. They explain that hygge is about taking time out of the daily rush and bustle to relax and enjoy life's quieter pleasures. In fact, a similar Old Norse word meant "protected from the outside world." Protection is what I need when it's over 100°.
Hygge is about comfort and ease, and is most likely to be found in the company of family and old friends while in familiar surroundings. It's informal and undemanding. It's also about equality and mutual well-being, so a spirit of harmony and agreement will be present. Hygge is a feeling of belonging.
You can also experience hygge when you're alone. Creating little rituals and pleasures for yourself that relieve boredom or harshness is hyggeligt. Alex from Hygge House explains that the Danes think of hygge as a natural part of everyday life, rather than a forced or over-planned occasion. It's not about escaping to the beach or the mountains, but about noticing and appreciating good moments at any time, right at home.
12 Ways to Experience Hygge when It's Too Hot to Snuggle
1. Seek comfort.
In the same way winter's cold and darkness drives you toward a blazing fire and your coziest loungewear, let a hot, dry summer entice you toward shade, cool breezes, flowing or trickling water, an electric fan or air conditioner, and loose, lightweight, mostly-cotton clothing.
2. Stay hydrated.
In winter you can savor hot coffee or simmer wine or apple cider with spices. But when temperatures are high, keep a good supply of ice for tall glasses of sweet tea, fresh lemonade, or water infused with fruit and herbs. You can make it in any pitcher you already own, but I like this infusion pitcher.
3. Enjoy a garden.
Whether you care for roses and a colorful array of annuals in your yard, grow sweet peppers, cherry tomatoes, and a miniature lemon tree in pots on your patio, or nurture basil, mint, and rosemary on a windowsill, stay green! Stop by the farmers' market early on weekend mornings, and visit a botanical garden or arboretum whenever possible.
4. Go to the movies.
On a really hot afternoon, go to the theater with a friend. With an icy cold drink (and maybe some hot buttered popcorn), revel in the darkness, the big screen, and the air conditioning.
5. Take early morning walks.
I'm a night owl myself, but even I find something very refreshing about the earliest part of the day. It's also as cool as it's going to get for the next 24 hours! Resist the urge to check your phone or listen to music or a podcast. Instead, leave home early enough to see the dawn, feel the dew, and hear the birds waking up. Walk briskly or at your leisure, breathe deeply, and by all means smell the roses.
6. Get wet.
Put on your bathing suit, grab your kids, and run through the sprinklers on your lawn. If you don't feel like running, simply move your patio chair into the path of the spray, plop yourself down, close your eyes, and relax.
7. Sink into a good book.
Take a break from obligations and reread an old favorite or a new best seller. This summer, my list includes Jess Walter's funny and romantic Beautiful Ruins, the riveting thriller In the Woods by Tana French, and Barbara Kingsolver's wonderful first novel (set mostly in broiling hot Arizona), The Bean Trees.
8. Make something.
Stay inside where it's cool, and let your imagination and the joy of creation put you in a happy, relaxed mood. Draw, color, or paint rocks. Crochet a lacy, summer-weight shawl or tie-dye some tee shirts. Craft a birdhouse out of scrap wood or put together some wind chimes.
9. Break out the board games.
From classics like Clue and HiHo! Cherry-O to newer favorites like Exploding Kittens and Ticket to Ride, board games provide fun, challenge, and quality family memories.
10. Share a no-cook meal.
If you're like me, you hate the thought of turning on the stove (or even lighting the barbecue) on those exceedingly hot evenings. But there are plenty of company-worthy no-cook recipes. So light a few candles and enjoy laughter and conversation with your loved ones.
11. Boogie to the music.
Don't sweat your workout. If you must exert yourself, make it fun! String fairy lights all over the backyard and dance barefoot on the grass. Why not host a disco party? Savor those long summer evenings.
12. Read aloud.
Sure, a Netflix binge on a sweltering afternoon is stress-free. But soon I find myself only half-watching while I scroll through social media. This is mundane, and doesn't foster belonging or intimacy, both of which are very hyggeligt. On the other hand, reading aloud and sharing the experience of a book with others does promote closeness and understanding, as well as getting everyone's focus off of screens.
So gather some of your people and read a great book. For ages 8 to adult, try Suzanne Collins' Gregor the Overlander (first in a wonderful series) or Gary Paulsen's classic Hatchet. You and your partner might enjoy reading William Goldman's hilarious and beloved novel, The Princess Bride, or Rebecca, a haunting romance by Daphne du Maurier.
I'm feeling more comfortable already, and I can see why a hyggeligt mindset makes you happier. Whether in icy winter or sweaty summer, it's far better to anticipate simple and enjoyable moments than to long for escape or wish away the time.
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